I clearly state at the beginning of my OkCupid profile if people send rude or crude messages they will be shared across my social media. By people, I’m specifically talking about men. I NEVER receive messages like this from women. Apparently, folks think I’m joking because I keep getting crazy ass nonsense. This serial killer in training (if not already in practice) is by far the worse online message I have ever received.
Too Early for the Bull
All kinds of no happening right now.
Dorkus Maximus OkCupidus
Did he really say “there’s something called an IP address which mean if any bullshit were to happen, they can find me easily.” If any bullshit? Who thinks that? That’s pretty much saying “Bitch, you gonna get chopped up and sautéed.”
And I’m rude as fuck? Really.
I’ve been on OkCupid for a few years now and at this point I have no illusions of finding dates. It’s really just for entertainment purposes such as this gem from this lovely gentleman.
A friend once told me, when it came to relationships, your luggage has to match. There needs to be enough in common on an emotional and personality level for compatibility. The lover, who I previously mentioned, did not match or even compliment my baggage. Interestingly enough, this did not come as a surprise. The thought of calling it off had been popping in and out of my head for the last 2 days. I thought about it so much these past couple of days that I receive a phone call this evening from the lover with the announcement that the relationships wasn’t working.
I know it’s passive-aggressive, but I was relieved that I did not have to make the decision. Tonight is the first time in a few weeks that I have not felt stifled or on guard worried that I was not giving enough attention or paying enough compliments to the lover. I being who I am just cannot handle clinginess, people who need to be constantly entertained, or who zap my energy. It is a futile effort attempting and draining, physically and emotionally to create something when there was never anything there in the first place. I have never been one of those women who are afraid of being alone. Hell, if I could find a way to never leave the house and still pay my bills I’d do it in a heartbeat. It had been sometime since I had dated and the lover was the first person I met who didn’t annoy or disgust me.
One day, I will learn to pay attention to what my emotions and common sense are telling me when it comes to romance.
And that was that. And I ain’t mad or even a little sad.
Hey, that rhymed. ((^_~))
New relationship energy, or NRE, is that crazy rush of endorphins and happy happy joy joy feelings you experience when you first starting dating a new love. It’s when the birds are singing, the flowers blooming, and your world is nothing but kittens, bunnies, and rainbows.
Basically, it’s the time when people look at you in absolute disgust and horror as you and your new love make goo goo eyes at each other.
I’ve been seeing a lovely person for about a month. They’re (note: it is very rare that I will use gender neutral pronouns when talking about lovers), nice, smart, cute, good kisser, seems to like me, and enjoyable to be around.
So why am I not feeling the NRE?
I’ve been pondering this question for a couple of days now. Typically, a month into dating, I cannot get enough of being around my new love interest. I want to text or email (a sista will not talk on the phone, but that’s a post for another time) all the time. I have been known to stay up ‘til 3am fuckin’ my brains out knowing damn well I have to be up at 6am to get to work. It’s not that I’m completely lacking emotions for the new person. I enjoy the time we spend together. It’s…I can’t quite put my finger on what the issue might be.
What say you all? Even though you like them, have you ever not experience NRE even though you like the person you have just started dating?
Found this gem on the free bookshelf. I think it’s time for a…um…study break.
Just testing creating post on my Samsung Galaxy Note 2.